9:18 pm

Of faith and fidelity


All is well with the world.

My MasterChief and I have found ourselves on a new level in terms of our relationship. We have more or less a timeline as well. And we know where our direction is heading.

I may be ferociously independent, but I am all women when it comes to loving, appreciating, and feeling secure in her man with unshakable faith. (How lucky am I, eh?) On Sat, when I worked my half-day shift before meeting the MasterChief, I was bouncing so much that my work buddy asked. And when she realised he wasn't based in Singapore, she spurted out Don't you worry? My immediate reaction? An unequivocal No!

Apparently, her own partner is Singaporean but she sometimes has her doubts about his fidelity. She's not the only one in the office who occasionally doubts her partner/husband.

I cannot fathom loving someone, making them a huge part of one's life, and still not being able to trust them in that way. Maybe it's the way my mindset towards men and relationships developed over the years. Like I joked to Bernie the other day... I moan and groan about being born 20 years too late. I want a gentleman! A man's man! c'mon, God, you listening? heh! And then one drops in my lap.


Like I said.... how lucky am I?

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Very lucky, don't let him go.

Fiona Kathleen Hogan said...

Rob, thank you..... very much like Christa has you!

Anonymous said...

Indeed!