11:10 pm

Alter ego

I don't know if it's because I'm bored with this mindless temp job I'm doing.

Or if it's because it's something I've always been interested in.

Or if it's just my natural inclination.

I've discussed this with Bernie a lot, this desire to teach and explore everything and anything pertaining to human sexuality. What turns people on? Off? Why do people do kinky things? I know why *I* do mine, but how about others? For a while, I actually toyed with the idea of doing something for couples with intimacy issues but..... well..... that's another story.


And so I've finally sent out feelers to the few "local" Singaporean BDSMers and I've actually set up an alternative spot for this particular side of me. I used to be part of the local BDSM community, not really active in participation per se, but I'd show up at munches, attend the private parties. To try and show the newbies that Hey! You're not weird in the head and that Yes! this might be something you could be interested in! Go on, ask whatever youi'd like!

(Actually, that was where
Jimmie and I met, and he's turned out to be a great friend so that was fantastic.)

Anyways. I got tired of all these buggers who post and say "Yes, email me time and place". Yeah. Whingers. Experience has shown me that a majority of these buggers won't have the courage nor inclination to actually attend a public munch. *shrugs* And what was it that I said the other day about doers vs talkers? Yeah. :)


So let's see what the cat drags in shall we, on my new site?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Cool. And I like how you made the comments link become "X spankies given"! Whatever happened to the old group anyway? More importantly, whatever happened to the ugly cross dresser who was trying to sleep with you?

Fiona Kathleen Hogan said...

Jimmie,
I was bored one evening, but I've bounced this idea off you already from OH so long ago :)

There are a few people who on alt.com who kept whinging about parties so I stepped up to bat.

But truly, this lot seems useless.
*rolls eyes*

Old group? Apart from you? No one else, sénor!